Excitement builds as you prepare to welcome your new baby into the world. However, your furry baby has no idea of the changes about to happen, and it is important to consider the impact on him. Preparing your dog for a new baby is crucial for a smooth transition because the baby’s arrival will bring changes to his routine and possibly his behaviour.
Consider these preparations before the baby’s arrival so that once baby is home, you can provide them with a safe, hygienic space and the respect and attention they deserve. Issues such as jealousy or possessiveness need to be pre-considered and cannot be reactive actions.
Before you bring baby home
Introducing a new baby to a household with a dog can be a big adjustment for everyone involved. If your dog has adapted well to a new puppy, adapting to a baby may be easier. The two most important things you can do to help your dog adjust to the upcoming changes are to introduce him to baby-related sounds and smells and to gradually reduce the amount of attention and affection you give him, without neglecting him.
A new baby brings many unique elements to a household, and added to that, your dog has to learn to share your attention.
Tips on introducing your dog to baby-related sounds and smells:
- Start by playing sounds of a baby crying, cooing or babbling to get your dog used to them. Begin by playing them at a very low volume before gradually increasing it, but never play the sounds louder than those of a real baby.
- Introduce your dog to baby items by letting him sniff and explore the baby blankets or toys. Use baby powder to familiarise him with the smell of a baby.
- Consider practising with a baby doll so your dog gets used to the size, sound and movements of a baby. Hold the doll while making baby sounds and move it to simulate the presence of a real baby.
- Use positive reinforcement to encourage your dog when he responds positively to the sounds, smells or movements in your exercises.
- Include your dog in the preparations for the baby, such as decorating the nursery.
Adjusting routines
The key to familiarising your dog with sounds and smells is to start early and take things slowly. Gradually increasing exposure to baby-related sounds and smells will help your dog adjust more easily to these changes when the baby arrives. It’s essential to remember that changes be gradual, as sudden changes in routine can be stressful for dogs.
Continue to ensure that your dog receives appropriate levels of attention and affection because sudden neglect can cause anxiety or other negative behaviours. By establishing a new routine and slowly reducing the amount of attention your dog receives, you can help him adjust to the coming changes.
Use these tips to reduce the amount of attention your dog receives before your baby arrives:
- Gradually reduce the length or frequency of playtime and cuddles.
- Establish a new routine that includes less one-on-one time with your dog, but don’t neglect him in the process.
- Get your dog used to spending time alone by encouraging him to play with toys or using other distractions to keep him busy.
- Teach your dog a ‘settle’ cue, which can help him relax and calm down when he is feeling anxious or needy.
- Ensure that he can follow basic cues, such as ‘sit’, ‘stay’ and ‘leave it’, so that he behaves appropriately around the baby.
- Whenever your dog is behaving well and not demanding attention, reward him with treats or praise.
Bringing the baby home and beyond
With a new baby in the house, your work will extend to supervising interactions between your dog and baby.
Manage your dog’s behaviour around the baby and teach him to give the baby space and respect their boundaries. Good hygiene practices will prevent the spread of germs. Never leave your dog and baby alone together.
Give your dog his own space, such as a bed, where he can relax and feel safe. Even with a new baby in the house, it’s important to continue to show your dog attention and affection to prevent him from becoming jealous or possessive. If your dog exhibits jealousy or possessiveness around the baby, consult with a professional dog trainer or behaviourist for additional guidance.
Tips on hygiene practices:
- Keep your dog clean to reduce the amount of dirt and shedding in the house and the risk of germs spreading.
- Designate dog-free zones to minimise the risk of your dog coming in contact with baby’s belongings. Also, wash your dog’s paws to reduce the amount of dirt and bacteria he brings inside.
- Wash your hands frequently, especially after handling your dog or cleaning up after him.
- Always keep dog food and baby food separate to avoid any cross-contamination.
- Use a baby gate or playpen to keep your dog separated from your baby during certain activities, such as nappy changing or feeding.
- For hygiene purposes, regularly clean up after your dog.
By following these guidelines, you can help to ensure a safe, happy, fun and healthy environment for both your new baby and your dog. Soon your furry friend will be baby’s best friend.
